Can you believe that the holidays are just around the corner? We recently got our first snow in Illinois, and it’s got us in the holiday spirit!

Along with the merriment and celebrations of this season come various expectations, obligations, and family gatherings to attend. A few years ago, we started a tradition in our family of giving our children the gift of freedom when it comes to holiday events. 

While this may be unheard of in some families, this decision has brought our family much relief from the pressures that often come with the holidays. It gives our adult children space to forge their own traditions with their families, and it gives us freedom, too.

This year, we’re traveling to Australia to spend Christmas with our son—something we couldn’t do if we’d insisted that all our kids and their families spend the holidays with us locally. If you’re curious about what it could look like to give the gift of freedom to your own family this holiday season, listen in to hear our best advice.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• How to let go of rigid schedules
• The greatest gift you can give to your adult children
• Why setting realistic expectations is so important
• And more!

We hope this conversation inspires you to prepare well for the holiday season!

Find resources mentioned and more in the show notes: jillsavage.org/preparing-for-holidays-274

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